Just like everyone else, I have been following the nascent tennis career of Alex Eala. Amid all the controversies and rifts around us, Alex seems to be the perfect unifying force for a nation in need of heroes. This was in full display in her heartbreaking loss during the finals of the Lexus Eastbourne Open when she failed to capture her first Women’s Tennis Association (WTA) title despite holding four championship points. Yes, she shone brightest not in victory but in a crushing defeat. That is why I know she will succeed.
In defeat, Alex embodied the ideals of “sipag” at “tiyaga.” She proved that that she is, indeed, an inspiring figure not just among tennis fans but also for all young Filipinos. Her runner-up finish showcased the indomitable spirit that defines her journey. After the match she was so gracious in defeat and exhibited the right attitude. She said “I guess that's also why I'm so emotional, it's only the first, I'll definitely work hard to do more. Wimbledon is next week so hopefully I'll forget about this much sooner.”
Later in her Instagram account, she wrote: “This has to be one of the toughest losses of my early career, but I firmly believe that it’s these moments that make you stronger and shape your character.” I can proclaim right now that this young lady is destined for success. She continued, “I have a date with center court (referring to the legendary court at Wimbledon).” No Alex, you have a date with destiny.
Her rise in the world of tennis has been nothing short of spectacular. From a young age, she displayed an extraordinary passion for the sport, coupled with a work ethic a parent could only hope for in their kids. Born and raised in the Philippines, Alex has become a symbol of hope and pride for many Filipinos who see in her the embodiment of sipag at tiyaga.
Just like many success stories in sports, politics, and business, Alex will look back at this defeat, and the other disappointment she has yet to experience, as the defining moment of her life. As I have said on many occasions, successful entrepreneurs all came from disappointments and failures. No success story ever come about without struggles and debacles. The reason for this is that how you handle the failure and how you overcome defeat is the most important ingredient in charting a path to success.
What truly sets Alex apart is not just her talent but her attitude in the face of adversity. Her attitude after that loss reflects a profound understanding of the nature of competitive sports and life itself. Losses, especially heartbreaking ones, can either break a person’s spirit or serve as catalysts for growth. Alex has chosen the latter path; that is why I know she is destined for greatness.
Alex’s story is a powerful reminder that success—as I have been tirelessly preaching all these years—is the result of relentless hard work. Talent and skills are important but so is hard work. Sabi ko nga, doon sa mga walang talent importante na may sipag at tiyaga. (Like I said, those who do not possess talent, it’s important to have diligence and perseverance.)
I also like her demeanor on and off the court. Her humility and grace in both victory and defeat highlight the importance of character in sportsmanship. She embodies the values that many aspire to instill in the next generation: respect, discipline, and a positive attitude.
And so I congratulate Alex on her achievements and all the successes that I am sure will follow. I am sure you are already aware of this Alex but your journey is a beacon of inspiration to a nation in search of a muse. I hope this is not too much pressure on your young shoulder but your positive attitude and unwavering spirit in the face of adversity remind us all that setbacks are merely setups for comebacks.
As Malcolm Stevenson Forbes once said, "Victory is sweetest when you've known defeat". Oh, what sweet success it would be!
